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Hey Mamas! So, we just talked about must haves for baby, but what about YOU? It’s so easy to be in the midst of caring for your new baby that you forget to take care of yourself. This happens to me all the time and I legit wish someone would say “Girl you look rough you need to take some time for yourself”. Also I’m taking volunteers between the hours of 1 am-4 am lol….just kidding! But really Heidi had a high fever last night and today has been hard….some days are just that. Hard.
Let’s talk about some things that are great for a new Mom and will also make your life a little bit easier and not so hard….because the struggle is real.
First off is Nursing Comfort Balm from Mustela. I strictly pumped with Connor when he was a baby for 14 months, and so far I’m 7 months in exclusively pumping with Heidi. It’s a lot of work, but completely worth it! In the beginning though it’s so hard to try to keep up your supply and your poor nipples feel like they’ve been rubbed over and over with sandpaper. It’s SO important to keep them moisturized and lubricated. If not you are in for a lot of pain and it’s so important to remember to apply balm before and after feedings or pump sessions. It will save your boobies and make for a much more pleasant experience.
Mustela’s Nursing Comfort Balm is a soothing and restorative nipple cream that keeps skin comfortable while nursing. The lanolin-free balm moisturizes and protects nipples, eases discomfort, and helps to replenish and restore skin during and after breastfeeding. I highly recommend a lanolin free product! It worked much better for me. It’s made with 100% naturally-derived ingredients like olive oil and is fragrance and dye free.
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Second thing for a new Mama is a good nursing bra. You are basically on breast arrest for the first six months and ease and comfort is key when looking for a nursing bra. These bras from Playtex are awesome and super comfy! Not to mention they aren’t that bad looking and are actually pretty cute! When you think nursing bra sometimes you think of a granny bra…but this my friends is so cute and you’d never even know it’s a nursing bra.
This Shaping Foam Underwire bra has some awesome features like:
- QuickStrap® clips are designed to make nursing easy anytime, anywhere!
- Dual cup sizing flexes to fit as your size changes
- TruSupport® 4-way Support system, including comfortable straps, deeper cups, higher sides, and a wider back.
- Shaping Foam Underwire

Also, these Cross Over Sleep Bras come in a pack of two. Yes, you’ll want to wear a bra while sleeping because your boobies have a mind of their own and unless you want to wake up covered in milk get a sleeping bra. These bras flex to fit as your size changes and have Cool Comfort® fabric helps to keep you cool.

So, the third fun find are these Milkflow Lactation Coffee Pods from UpSpring. They are AMAZING you guys!!! And I’m not just saying that because I’m a crazy coffee junkie, but they actually taste amazing and anything that can help increase my milk supply is awesome! I’m going to have my coffee anyway so why not have an additional benefit right? Whatever genius thought of this idea….well, it’s genius!

UpSpring’s Milkflow is the first lactation coffee that contains the herbs Fenugreek and Blessed Thistle to help naturally promote breast milk supply. The herbal ingredients in Milkflow are plant-based and so is the single serve coffee pod itself. Milkflow Lactation Coffee Pods are 100% compostable, with zero plastic and zero BPAs. Better for the environment, mom, and baby!
The product is gluten-free, non-GMO, and Lactation Consultant recommended.
* You can find UpSpring Milkflow Lactation Coffee Pods are available at Target in the baby aisle.*
Aging…it happens to us all. For some reason after I have babies I feel like I’ve aged 20 years…or maybe I’m just so worn out that it just feels like that? Either way it’s been 10 years since I had my first baby and this time around I’m definitely feeling that 10 year age gap. Taking care of my skin is key, especially as I’m veering towards the big 4-0. This LiftActiv Peptide-C Ampoule Serum from Vichy is incredible. I’ve been using it for the past week and I can definitely tell my skin feels smoother and brighter.

Formulated with only 10 ingredients including: 10% Pure Vitamin C (an antioxidant known to help brighten skin), Natural Origin Hyaluronic Acid (to hydrate and plump the skin) and Plant-based Phyto Peptides (to fight signs of collagen loss). Derm-grade formula targets visible signs of collagen loss, wrinkles, lack of radiance and firmness.
Clinically proven efficacy:
– From the 1st use: Skin is firmer & feels hydrated
– In 10 days: Skin looks smoother & radiant
– In 1 month: Visibly reduces wrinkles & resurfaces skin texture
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This is an awesome cause and I’m excited to share with you “Love Without Boundaries“. It’s a Non-Profit Organization and international charity that provides hope and healing to orphaned and vulnerable children, and their undeserved communities. Their mission is to provide healing, education and refuge to vulnerable children worldwide, and their core belief is that ‘Every Child Counts.’ From the beginning, their model has been to partner with local citizens on the ground to change the lives of vulnerable children. By working together, we empower each other to create a lasting impact.
Love Without Boundaries provides hope and healing to vulnerable children through ongoing programs in Cambodia, India, Uganda and China, and more through special projects around the world. To learn more about this amazing program download this free copy of The Heart of an Orphan, by Amy Eldridge, and learn more about LWB’s story of love, hope and healing.
So blessed to be this baby’s Mama. I can’t believe how fast time flies when you are having fun…or sleep deprived…or whatever! Ha! But I wouldn’t trade a darn thing! xoxo Becky

Well, I’m 6 months into this new mom thing (again)…and it’s going pretty well! I mean she’s still alive and thriving and we seem to be getting a bit more sleep, so that’s a WIN in my book! Heidi sure does keep us on our toes and she’s growing like a weed. She really is the happiest and most smiley baby I’ve ever seen. She’s starting to figure things out and get bored easily and even has a bit of separation anxiety when I leave the room. The one thing I keep saying to myself when I see new baby items is “Wow! They didn’t have this almost 10 years ago when I had Connor?” So many things have changed in a decade and I love trying and sharing my favorite baby products with YOU! So, it’s a new year & I’d love to share some NEW fun baby products we’ve been trying lately and you can check them out too! I also love connecting with new Moms on 

The NEW aden + anais™ snuggle knit collection is made of the softest fabric designed for the ultimate snuggle. This would be the perfect gift if you know someone about to have a baby. It has everything needed for a hospital stay and afterwards. The set comes with a beautiful knotted gown, hat, swaddle blanket, & bandana bib (The bib is exclusive to the newborn gift set).
This super soft set is available in three prints – heather grey, rosettes, and navy stripe. The newborn gift set retails for $59.95. The knotted gown, hat and swaddle blanket can also be bought separately. The snugly little lovey retails for $19.95 – Perfect for babies and toddlers, the snuggle knit lovey will be much-loved by little ones & provide calm and comfort at any time of the day. I love the super stretchy and SOFT fabric which makes it easy to swaddle and use as your baby grows.
The snuggle knit newborn set is available for purchase at
This little lady is a drooly teething mess lately. Anything she can stick in her mouth she will! The Lil’ Squish Jellyfish Sensory Rattle + Teething Toy will keep your curious little one busy and happy through the teething phase and beyond. It’s made of 100% silicone, Lil’ Squish has a soft, squishy head with lots of fun textures for little mouths to explore. A variety of colorful tentacle loops make it easy to hold and maneuver and provide more teething textures, as well as promote hand-eye coordination in children.

The classic Tinkle Crinkle Caterpillar has been updated with fun, new patterns and a more modern look for modern babies. Each part of 16.5-inch Tinkle Crinkle Caterpillar includes a fun surprise for baby, including squeaker, crinkle, rattle, and more in bright, primary colors and fabric with textures to promote tactile and sensory stimulating play. Tinkle’s embroidered details make it safe for play by all ages 0+ and is machine washable for easy cleaning! We love the GUND brand. They have the cutest dolls, teddy bears, & stuffed animals make perfect gifts for birthdays, baby showers, baptisms, Easter, Valentine’s Day & more!
We’ve been using this after bath time lately and the baby balm is super nourishing and hydrating with plant-derived ingredients to comfort even the most sensitive skin. The baby lotion is very lightweight and non greasy. Babies have super delicate skin so I’m always cautious of what I use on Heidi. Pipette Baby provides deep, gentle moisture for baby’s sensitive spots and replenishes and restores natural balance of baby’s skin. Pipette is also featured in Good Housekeeping Magazine on page 49.


I love this HUGE wreath it screams “Family Christmas Card”. Next season we’ll have to make plans to go early so we can actually put it on a card. I didn’t get cards out this year because it’s been so busy, but next year that will be my goal.





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This picture shows you just how much I had loaded into this vehicle. I even had Heidi’s entire bassinet in there! I loaded our suitcases, all my camera gear, and everything the baby would need!
















We had a wonderful Thanksgiving with friends and family and special thank you to Toyota for getting us all there safely and comfortably. We can’t wait to make more memories and take more family road trips in the future! If you want to check out more info on the Toyota Sequioa check out my 














