Category: Family

2023- Get Fit With Me!

It’s that time of year again, when we all set goals and resolutions.  This year I’m excited to work on my health journey.  Terence just ordered a new set of weights and we are turning our garage into a “sort of gym“. Connor mentioned wanting to lift weights and so that’s what we got for our family to workout together.  I’m hoping we all stick with it.
But….alas most of you know I work at a desk all day from 8am-5pm and that leaves me little time to focus on my health.  At the end of the day when I get home after a long day it’s all I can do to put dinner together. I got a Cubii, which is a cool under desk equipment device you can use as a seated elliptical.  I brought it to work with me and I’m excited to use it and so are the gals I work with 🙂
It was super easy to put together and I was off in no time! It has an easy to read display and 8 levels of resistance.
Girl you better WORK!!!
Easy to transport anywhere in the office too!
I’m so excited about my Cubii!!!  In other news my sister got me this super cute Ted Lasso shirt for Christmas.  I LOVE IT!!! If you haven’t seen Ted Lasso yet…you must.  Really excited for the third season and Becky isn’t going to be eating any biscuits with the boss this year because….carbs! LOL!
I also started a new side hustle and I’ve been taking a supplement for a couple of months now. I found a line of products that focus on mental health and wellness. Hormones are crazy and this particular supplement deals with your leptin levels.   If you Google “Leptin Levels” here’s what you get: Leptin is a hormone your body releases that helps it maintain your normal weight on a long-term basis. The level of leptin in your blood is directly related to how much body fat you have. Leptin resistance causes you to feel hungry and eat more even though your body has enough fat stores.

This supplement helps my body function at it’s best and raises my leptin levels so I can burn more fat.  So far my journey is going very well, and I’ve definitely lost inches.  Check out my site HERE for more info & there is a 12 month money back guarantee.  So what do you have to lose?  I can say after 40 it does get harder to burn the fat, so I’m excited to add this to my daily routine and watch the fat melt away.
Valentine’s day is right around the corner y’all.  It’s been so mild here in TX, in the 70’s and 80’s for highs the last couple of weeks!  We are soaking it in and enjoying the sunshine.
I took some cute pie pics of Heidi in her Brianna Cannon headband.  I’ve LOVED being a brand rep for the accessories I adore too.  The Valentine’s Day line is EVERYTHING!!!
Don’t forget to use my code : BECKY10 for 10% and free shipping!!!
So excited for this new year and what it holds, you better “be-leaf” it.  Follow along on my journey on Instagram too y’all!
xoxo- Becky

Christmas Season 2022

This is going to be the ultimate photo dump for 2022 and my lack of blogging in general! Ha! Anyway…we had a very Merry Christmas and I wanted to share some of our favorite memories!

We love our Nannie Sue and going to the farm. There’s truly nothing like being at the farm for Christmas. It’s been that way my whole life and I can’t imagine the season any other way. We are so thankful for Nannie. This was the year her kitchen pipes froze and Mom was hauling water from the bathroom to the kitchen to wash dishes. Glad her pipes finally thawed! We had some competitive games of the “Christmas Ham” aka the saran wrap game. Also, pictionary and Family Feud were fun too!

My friend Karen and I had a great time taking our kiddos to Cirque “Twas the Night” before Christmas show.  Every time I see a Cirque show it’s always an amazing experience of music and acrobatics.

Connor and went and saw the Santa house in our neck of the woods.  There are hundreds of Santas in their yard.  It’s really fun!

I got my FAVORITE new pair of Brianna Cannon custom earrings.  Anyone who knows me…KNOWS how much I love England.  These are something I will cherish always and hopefully get to wear to visit some day.

I’ve loved being a brand rep for fun headbands and earrings this past year.  My 10% off + free shipping discount code is: BECKY10

Thanks to everyone who orders with it and supports my accessories addiction!!! 🙂

I have always wanted to go on a carriage ride. One night we were in downtown and I saw the carriage pull over and I asked the man on the carriage how to book. He said they were all booked up for the season, but they still took walk-ons. I said do you have time available??? He said as a matter of fact I do right now….and we walked on and had the best time!

Great memories with Nana and Poppy (and Poppy in his Buccees shirts!)

The most beautiful scene….the farm at Christmas with snow.

 

Heidi and I had the best time visiting the new Brianna Cannon flagship store. It’s so cute, y’all must visit if your in Frisco.

We visited Santa at the Galleria Mall in Dallas and their whole exhibit never disappoints!  We love visiting Snowday Dallas.

 

Heidi next to my lovely Starbucks coffee tree.

We also had a lovely time visiting the Daystar Christmas lights this year too!

My sister and her family came to vist and we had a fun time at The Gaylord ICE! It was finally back after a couple of years and I was ready to freeze again. I love this tradition in our family and it was awesome sharing it with my sister and hers.

So many Christmas events and memories this year!

Breakfast with Santa at Hotel Vin in Grapevine was so GOOD! They had a good Santa and the food was amazing. Eating dinner in one of the bubble domes is on my bucket list for next year. But breakfast is definitely worth the visit.

We hope you all had a very Merry Christmas season too and Happy New Year!!!

Planning Smart for the Future

I’ve worked in finance and helping people plan for their future over 15 years now.  I love my job and helping others in my community think about all the “What ifs” of life!  Of course you never know what is in store from day to day, so it’s always good to start planning early.  My husband and I have been married over 21 years now.  The one thing I know is that we try to plan for all that uncertainty in our family so that our kids will be okay. The best time to invest in cheap term life insurance is when you are young, but it’s never too late to purchase a policy.  Although getting in at a young age does usually get you a lower premium.

2001: Little did these two kids know what the future had in store….

Here we are over 20 years later:

And there is nothing we wouldn’t do for these two!

These are some great tips when planning for your financial future:

  1. Set financial goals so you clear idea of why you’re saving.
  2. Create a budget.
  3. Build an emergency fund.
  4. Manage debt.  Don’t rack up credit cards and try to pay in cash if possible.
  5. Protect yourself and your family with good insurance.
  6. Plan for retirement.
  7. Invest in other opportunities besides your 401k.

I know a lot of people who follow the Dave Ramsey method and have had great success.  We personally save until we can pay for things in full and don’t carry debt.  Not carrying that burden on our shoulders is an amazing feeling!  Sure, you have to say no to a lot of things, but that won’t last forever and eventually you can say YES to the things you really enjoy.

Life goes by so fast.  In a blink really…make sure the legacy you leave your family isn’t one of hurt and financial burden, but of safety, love, and the knowledge that they can carry on successfully in the future.

I’ll catch up on our Christmas vacay soon…in the mean time catch us over on Instagram for the latest! xo – Becky

SANTA 2022:

Fall Vibes & Accessorize!

 

Fall vibes over here in Texas now that it’s in the 80’s! Woohoo! I’ve got the house all pumpkin’d up and there is nothing I love more than fall accessories, clothing, decor, and colors!

My fall mantle

Love love loving these Brianna Cannon candy corn earrings and this gold ring with etched detail.  I love wearing dainty gold jewelry along with my headbands and other accessories.

Everyone knows I’m a lover off all things plaid and tartan.  These shoes are under $40 at DSW and I LOOOOOVE them!

Also,this purse from my new favorite boutique in Frisco, TX called Apple Boulevard is super cute and well made!

This bag from Think Rolyn is on my wish list.

My Stanley mugs are on sale again on Amazon and they even have the HOT PINK in stock! Run now to get it….HERE!!!

I’m also giving away a Stanley mug over on my Instagram page so go ENTER HERE!!!

Spider web headband is AMAZING!!!!

And these pumpkin spice latte earrings from Brianna Cannon are my favorite this fall too! I wore them when we took the kiddos to the pumpkin patch last week.

Don’t forget you can get 10% off and FREE shipping with my code: BECKY10

We met some silly sisters at the pumpkin patch too! These girls dressed up and came to visit for fun and everyone was taking pictures. We watched the new Hocus Pocus Saturday night- it was okay….not my favorite movies of all time, but it was cute! #sandersonsisters

Cute pic of my babies at the pumpkin patch! They are growing up so fast and Connor is playing football and doing so well. We’ve been super busy and I’m back working in banking full-time and doing photography part time as well. I have my fall specials posted so if you’d like to book let me know!

Fall Photo Minis

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Heidi’s 3rd Birthday

July 1st my baby girl turned THREE!  Gosh how the years fly by and go so slow at the same time.  It seems like yesterday we were bringing her home from the hospital.  She is my lil “Heidi Bug” – the nickname I call her.  She’s tiny, but so strong!  Heidi loves all things pink and red, her baby dolls are her favorite thing to play with, and she likes to sing and dance.  She loves the show Blaze and Sing 2.  Heidi wants to do everything her big brother Heidi does and is very independent.  “I can do it myself!” she always says.  Heidi loves to read books and put together puzzles- she’s a smart cookie!  The difference between having a boy and a girl is so funny…she’s so girly and Connor was such a boy- always jumping onto stuff and wrecking things.  Heidi loves to help clean, is very organized, and knows where all of HER stuff is at all times lol!

She is precious, snuggly, and the best addition to our family.  Her curly little hair and big blue eyes melt my heart.  She’s a Daddy’s girl and is obsessed with him!  You love school and all your friends there.  Pink and Red are your favorite colors and you love your stuffed animals and baby dolls.

We love you so much Heidi bug you light up our lives.  Here are a few pictures from your 3rd year.  xo – Mama

 

My Hysterectomy & Recovery

I’ve been over on Instagram talking about my hysterectomy and recovery & a lot of people chimed in, so I thought I would put a blog post together about my personal journey.

The reason:  Why did you have a hysterectomy in the first place?

For as long as I can remember I’ve had heavy bleeding.  I started my period in my teens and it progressively got worse over the years to the point that it was humiliating and embarrassing.  I would dread that time of the month like the plague.  It wasn’t just heavy periods, it was bleeding through a tampon and a pad and still having to come home on my lunch breaks to change pants.  I was so tired and exhausted from losing so much blood.  As the years went by and after having two kids it just seemed to get worse.  I had an ablation  in March of 2020 and in my case it didn’t work.  The ablation seemed to only make my symptoms worse and more painful each month.  I highly recommend researching REALLY hard before deciding if that procedure is right for you.  My Mom had a hysterectomy at 40 and historically my family genetics aren’t great when it comes to “that time of the month”.  I knew after the ablation failed I would most likely have to consider a hysterectomy.  

I had been putting it off because I didn’t want to be down for a month or more.  I have a toddler again…how would I make it work?  I was actually scheduled for one last fall, but had some things going on and didn’t want to miss those or take time off of work at that time.  So, the day after I turned 41 this year I had a HYSTERECTOMY!

Happy Birthday to me right?  Ha!

I get incredibly nervous before surgeries.  And I absolutely hate IV’s on my hand…for goodness sakes!  Anything but my darn hand!  The surgery itself was pretty good, I have nothing negative to say about that whole process. I arrived an hour before my scheduled hysterectomy and got ready and two hours later I was in recovering munching on ice chips.  I did stay the night in the hospital.  Because I had some scar tissue on my bladder they had to remove I ended up having a catheter for almost 24 hours afterwards.  The nurses will make sure you are walking up and down the halls and came go to the bathroom before you are released.

You will need help when you get home.  My Mom, Dad, and Sister watched my kids for two weeks while I recovered.  I needed Terence’s help for a couple of days getting in and out of bed and using the bathroom.  I absolutely don’t know what I would have done without the help of family.  With Heidi still being so little she still wants to be held frequently and I couldn’t lift her at all.

The GAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  OMG the GAS!!!!!!!!  I heard you get really bad gas after laparoscopic surgery, but my WORD!!!  The gas was terrible.  It’s not regular gas either.  Because they use carbon dioxide gas to inflate the abdomen during the laparoscopy, gas can get trapped. The gas lasted 3-4 days for me and was very painful and moved all the way into my neck and shoulders. To help with the gas you can walk around or shift your legs side to side in bed. Your first bowel movement should occur 4-5 days after surgery.

These are some things that helped me during recovery:

  • A heating pad.  Laying a heating bad on your back or over your abdomen really helps relieve gas and pain.
  • A belly band really helps support your back and abdomen while they recover too.
  • stretchy shorts and leggings
  • Getting up and WALKING is KEY!!!

I thought that I would bounce back after 2 weeks no problem.  I’m just now hitting the 2 week mark and I’m still really sore and it’s hard to bend over.  I can drive and do most things around the house that aren’t strenuous, but I’m definitely not 100% yet.  I have a follow up appointment next Tuesday and I’m hoping to go back to work soon!

This is what the incisions look like afterwards and they aren’t too bothersome.  It’s much better than cutting you open like they used to do for a hysterectomy.  There will be a lot of swelling, bruising, and bloating.

If you have any questions feel free to message me or comment!  I’m looking forward to this next chapter.  My sister and I just turned 41 and I’m excited for what the future holds without the struggles I’ve had my whole life.  Overall, I’m really glad I had this procedure done and wish I would have done it instead of the ablation.  I hope this post helps someone going through the same struggles and I’m here and praying for you as well.  xoxo- Becky

Connor’s 12th Birthday

Time has once again flown by and I don’t want to forget to post ALL the memories  y’all!

My sweet precious boy turned 12 in March.  It seems like yesterday he was born and now he’s a middle schooler.  Sixth grade has been quite the adjustment, but I pray every day for him that he will do well.  Connor loves Whataburger, macaroni and cheese, Fornite, Funko Pop figurines, YouTube, and swimming.

 

We had a snow day in February and it was the most beautiful day.  Thankfully the electricity stayed on this year!  We took some fun pictures and the kids got to use my vintage sleigh to slide around the neighborhood.


Lots more to catch up on- but I will do the best I can!  It’s hard to keep up now that I went back to work full-time.  I love my new job and things are going well….and as always…catch us EVERY DAY over on Instagram.

xoxo Becky