Throwback Thursday: Mother’s Day Edition

I love my Mom.  I have to say that living further away from her has only made me MORE thankful for her.  I wish I was there this weekend to give her a big ole hug and kiss.  She sacrificed a lot for my sister and I.  Especially while living in Germany, where she knew no one and raising twins while my Dad was out on drills for the Army.  Those were the days when we wore cloth diapers and she had to boil water for laundry!  Can you imagine???

She a great teacher.  She is a reading and literacy advocate and counselor.  My Mom has touched so many lives of young children over the years.  So blessed to call her my Mom and thankful for everything she’s ever done for me.  I could go on and on and probably write a book about it….but in the end…..all that matters is……

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And my sweet Nannie Sue too…she’s everything to us!photo

Love you both bunches and thank you for being the ultimate role model in my life.  You both are smart, loving, and most importantly, Godly women that I aspire to be like some day.  None can compare to either of you.  xo Becky

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Love 4 Life: Marriage Conference

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Ter-Bear and I attended a marriage conference last weekend at our church.  I’m go thankful we finally found a church we both like and that Connor likes too.  I can tell you that after almost 12 years of marriage it’s good to have a refresher every now and then on what marriage means and is truly about.  Marriage is such a blessing, it’s not always a smooth road, but it’s definitely a road that I want to travel down forever with Terence.

I took some notes at some of the breakout sessions and wanted to share some points I took away from the conference with you.

COMMUNICATION

*Men relate & communicate better side by side.  I thought this was interesting…maybe that is why T and I have good conversations laying side by side in bed?  Do you find yourself laying in bed and in the quietness of the night, at the end of a long day find it easier to talk?  No distractions, just dark and the two of you talking…

*Converse in a restaurant.  Go somewhere besides your home.  You may find it easier to communicate out in the open.

*Implement touch in conversation.  Sometimes just the gentle touch of your spouse can have a great effect.

*Communicating is about partnering, not punishing each other.  Example: “Let me show you why I’m so right and you’re so wrong!”  

 

I loved this.  A fellow sitting next to us said “I wear the pants in the house….the pants SHE puts out for me every day!”  Ha ha….good man!

 

NAVIGATING CONFLICT:

*Passion always brings emotions to the surface.  It’s good to be passionate about something so you can express your emotions.

* “Stuffers” : People who stuff things in until they explode or run.  That is something Terence and I try not to do.  Early on in our marriage we promised never to run away from each other even while fighting.

* “Slice & Dicers” : People who use words to bring others down.  I try to think before I say something if it’s going to tear someone down.  At times I catch myself, other times I’m guilty without even knowing it.  Watch your tongue….it’s a powerful tool.

* “Martyr in the relationship” : Someone who uses the guilt trip approach.  Example: “Well, you got to do that last weekend and I didn’t get to do anything.  So why can’t I do this?”

* “Diffusion” : Bringing up other unrelated conflicts to defuse the current situation.  I can SO relate to this.  I feel like Terence uses this approach all the time!  Stuff I don’t even recall?  I tell him he must have an awesome memory because of the stuff he remembers….it just lingers.  LET IT GO.

OTHER POINTS DISCUSSED:

* Discover your love language.  Your partner’s love language.

* Let the little thing go.  Ask yourself “Does this really matter?”

* Confront in Love: Try not to use the words “NEVER” or “ALWAYS” Example: You always do this.  You  never do that.

* Get to the need: Misunderstanding what was intended?  Fear, anger, hurt, guilt, or shame?

Well, that’s not everything….but I think we both really enjoyed spending part of our weekend focusing on our marriage.  It’s something you tend to put on the back burner, especially after children.  That should never be the case and I hope Terence knows that no matter what happens, or how tired I am at the end of each day, & how stressed I am…..that he always comes first.  God, my husband, and Connor.  MY LOVES.

The couple on stage in the below picture have been married 51 years.  They are so adorable!  I just love seeing couples that have been married that long and still have a sparkle in their eyes for each other.  The husband was asked what his secret was for the longevity of their marriage and why they would even consider coming to a marriage conference. They probably already knew everything there was to know about being married right?

This was his answer:  “Well, by the time you’re my age and have been married this long you forgot everything you learned in the first place so it’s new all over again!” 

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Cruising with Kids: Norwegian Cruises Giveaway!


Terence and I love to travel.  In fact you can check out all our travels on the navigation tab above under Categories: Travel.  Among the ways we love to travel is cruising.  Traveling on a cruise ship is great because it’s an easy way to plan a vacation.  Terence and I have cruised before, but it’s been about 10 years and I think we are about due for another one.  We definitely had a great time and our entire cruising experience was something we still talk about years later.  This time we have our son, Connor. Let me tell you vacationing with a 3 year old is a lot different than vacationing just the two of us.  It’s still a lot of fun we just have to plan activities around him as well!  We wouldn’t have it any other way.  We want him to feel included and have fun too.

 

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Our first cruise 2002

(love that you get to dress up on cruises!)

That’s why I think Norwegian Cruise Line’s youth program is a great option for our next vacation. Norwegian is now offering Nickelodeon experiences on some ships. In order to continue to offer the best experience for families, Norwegian has revamped its youth program. Kids will never be bored with all of the below new enhancements.

The youth program from Norwegian will keep kids of all ages active and entertained throughout the entire cruise.  You know what that means?  Mom and Dad can get a little R&R in too while still enjoying fun activities as a family!

Parents can join in on the fun during some brand new family events, of course all activities are optional.  The youth counselors are highly energized, engaging and a key benefit of the youth program – the kids will love them! They are cool, hip, active and fun.

Exclusively aboard Norwegian Cruise Line, Hilario Productions presents Cirque Du Jour. Cirque Du Jour will offer circus school consisting of a series of family workshops throughout the cruise including a circus show starring your kids and surprise pop-ups throughout the week by stilt walking clowns, balloon animal makers and much, much more! Oh gosh this sounds like something we would all enjoy!  Non-stop interactive workshops will encourage learning, allowing kids to develop new skills while having fun and giving them something memorable to take home with them.

Some of the fun activities on a Norwegian Nickelodeon cruise:

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Our future globe trotter- He loves Nick Jr. so I know he would love this! 

Specific Details of the youth program

All Ages – new and exclusive to Norwegian

Cirque Du Jour

“Hilario Productions presents Cirque Du Jour”

Series of family workshops throughout the cruise

Look out for surprise “Surprise Pop-ups from the famed Cirque Du Jour”

Appearances by mobile clowns

Stilt walking clowns

i.e. White Hot Night clowns with wings with white face on stilts

Someone making balloon animals

Interactive family experience

Circus show – featuring kids

Sporting Activities

Norwegian collaborated with Kings Camps and Foundation, the UK’s number one camp experts, to develop sporting activities for new youth program onboard

Norwegian has leveraged Kings Camps expertise to develop a sports program that includes interactive play that encourages bonding, teamwork and confidence building

Specifically, activities focus international sports so not your traditional, everyday sports – learn something new!

Sporting activities now brings youth program outdoor and utilize all the great areas of our ships – i.e. sports court, rock walls, etc.

Sporting activities will take place each day throughout the cruise

Shipboard Family Fun Challenge – all age groups

Will be included every week on ships with new youth program

Includes games like balloon toss and other silly, not serious, fun games

Culminates with Family Challenge Award Ceremony

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Splash Academy – Youth Program

Guppies: Ages 6 months – 2 years

Overall, under 2 programming will consist of sensory and creative play for under 2’s and their parents

Approximately two ½ hour sessions per day for sensory and creative play for babies and parents

Turtles: Ages 3 – 5 years

Seals: Ages 6 – 9 years

Dolphins: Ages 10 – 12 years

Overall, programming will be age appropriate

Lots of options consisting of indoor activities programmed alongside outdoor activities

Teen programs too!

Group Sitting Services

Port Play – Want some alone time while in port? Then drop off your kids at Port Play for free. (For a small fee during lunch and dinner hours.)

Late Night Fun Zone – Late Night Fun Zone is open every night (for a small fee.)

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In addition to the youth programs, Norwegian is an ideal option for a family vacation because now Norwegian gives families their best vacation ever with Freestyle Cruising® and exclusive Nickelodeon™ entertainment.  With so many activities and dining experiences you are bound to have a great time together.  The ships also feature slides, pools, and lots of family entertainment.  So what are you waiting for?  If you’ve been looking for something fun to do with your family this summer, but don’t have the time or energy to plan out every single day and activity (like me) then Norwegian takes care of all of that for you!  No fuss and all fun!  Make memories that will last a lifetime for you and your child.

For more information about Norwegian’s family vacation experience, click here.

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 “What is your dream vacation for your family?” 

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FRAM Fresh Breeze & a Healthier Commute

Terence and I both have crazy commutes every day to and from work.  Living in the DFW metroplex, I wouldn’t say the air is clean.  Actually it makes me sort of sick to my stomach thinking about the smog we are breathing in.  We have a pretty good air purifier for our home, but our cars….which we spend 10+ hours a week in????  Nothing.

 So we headed to Wal-Mart and checked outFRAM air filters.  FRAM air filters are designed to be easy to install as well as help rid your car of dust and allergens.  First we looked our car up on the FRAM database to see what kind of filter our car required and which one we would need.  Then we headed to the store to search for a new filter.

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We headed to the Wal-Mart auto zone

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They had a variety of FRAM filters, but we knew what we were looking for by searching the database online.

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Once we got home I put it in the car….and listen ladies if I can do this ANYONE can!D7K_0980

Our air filter happens to be under the dash, behind the glove compartment.D7K_0981 D7K_0982 D7K_0984 D7K_0987 D7K_0989

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Yay for clean fresh air!
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The process was super easy and now we are ready for another work week with nice clean air filtering through the car.  We live in the WORST area in the country for allergies.  I’m excited to see how the FRAM works and I hope it helps reduce allergens from our car.  FRAM Fresh Breeze cabin air filters are made with Arm and Hammer baking soda, which can help with pollen particles and road dust. Did you know you are supposed to change the air filter in your car twice a year?  I sure didn’t!  I’m going to make a point to remember to do this more often.  I never thought something this important in our car would be so easy to change.  Why I waited so long and endured the nastiness of the old filter is beyond me.  So so excited to start our cleaner, healthier commute using #FresherCar FRAM Fresh Breeze air filters!

Check out FRAM Fresh Breeze filters and get a rebate HERE

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Sears Shop Your Way Rewards for Mother’s Day

spin_prod_733165512Just in time for Mother’s Day, we’re excited to share the PERFECT deal for Mom! For ONE DAY only, on May 5, Sears is having its Family & Friends sale where you have a choice between receiving 15% off your purchase, or 25% in SHOP YOUR WAY REWARDS ℠ Points added to your account. And, with Mother’s Day just a few days after, it’s a perfect opportunity to make sure you get what will make her smile big! Here are some great options:

 

·         Cannon® Egyptian cotton towels are $7.99 (reg. $15.99)

·         Canon ELPH camera is $129.99 (reg. $169.99)

·         Nordic Track T5.7 treadmill is $599.99 (reg. $899.99)

·         Up to 20% off All Original Pink Box tools and storage

·         1-cttw stud diamond earrings are $329.99 (reg. $989.99)

·         TIMEXArmitronRelicBULOVA and other branded watches are 25% off

·         Sterling silver “family tree” pave pendant is 70% off

·         Diamond mom ring (SS 1/20 cttw) – $99.99 (reg. $349.99)

·         Carter’s® for newborns, infants and toddlers clothing is 50%

Can’t make it on Sunday? Shop these deals online at Sears.com May 4, from 8 p.m. CT – May 7, at 7 a.m. CT!

SHOP YOUR WAY is a free, Members-only program and shopping community that offers rewards, personalized deals, product reviews and services like e-coupons and e-receipts for faster returns and exchanges – join at ShopYourWay.com.

Disclosure: I am writing this post as a part of a sponsored campaign as a member of the Mom Bloggers Club. 

DFW Bloggers Spring Meet-Up

Saturday night I got to hang with all my DFW Diva bloggers!  Let me just say this bunch of gals is amazing!  Like, for realz….I heart them.  Everyone is so nice and genuine, just like they are on their blogs, or even better!  We started off the night at Lucky Strike bowling alley.  I’d never been before, but I’m not the best bowler.  Obviously, because later that evening I learned I won the trophy for the lowest score!  Hey….at least I got a trophy right?

After dinner (Yes that is our waiter inside photo bombing us!) ha ha!

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All the gals:

I want to give a super special thank you to our hostess with the mostess NICOLE.  Without her none of this would have happened.  She organized and planned the whole event.  And we even got some fab goody bags to take home with us.  I don’t know how she did it all….she must have a magic wand or something?  I seriously love her, she has a heart of gold and look forward to seeing her lots more!  Along with everyone else!

Rebecca @ Busy Becka
Heather @ Dallas Single Mom
Gayle @ Grace for Gayle
Sarah @ A Dash of Sarah
Becky @ The Java Mama

Rebekah @ Living and Learning
Lauren @ Enjoying the Journey
Stephanie @ Restyle.Re.Rack
Marci @ Living Through Motherhood

Holli @ Holli’s Hoots and Hollers
Julie @ A Beautiful Day
Helene @ Helene In Between
Taylor @ Pink Heels Pink Truck

Getting their bowl on
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Group picture after bowling and some drunk guy behind us…apparently it was fun to photo bomb the DFW Blogger Divas???

I told him he shouldn’t have done that….he’d end up on the Internet.

“Oila” D7K_0911 D7K_0913

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Me and Becka of the fabulous Kiki La’Rue

She is SO nice and has the most fun personality!  Definitely good entertainment in this girlie right here 😉
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My AMAZING cheesecake….I always think of dessert first!

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Nicole wearing one of Becka’s hair extensions…working it…..Yep that’s a good look for ya 😉

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My “Naughty-tini” at the bowling alley

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Such great fun & so blessed God brought us all together through blogging!

We must make this a monthly thing girls….ya’ll are the best!

xo Becky

And if you are in the Texas area joing some fab Texas blogging groups:

Texas Women Bloggers

&

Fort Worth Moms Blog